Which Widows Ring?
Dear WidowsRing,
two questions
first is this for a widow or the band style
second how long usually does the gold last and do you redip with gold plate? well that is three questions I don't know if I should get this one I would have to wear on my right hand the band I could wear over my wedding ring what did you do?
Dear jackandtommysmom
For a widow that wants to continue to wear her wedding rings, the thin eternity bands fit nicely next to those rings.
The journey ring also fits well.
The wider bands are best worn alone to replace the wedding rings when it feels right to remove them, or you do not want an empty finger or to appear as if your are single.
The solitaire is designed to wear alone, but many wear them with their other rings.
I have worn every ring that I offer and each has something to say.
When I 1st started looking for a widows ring for myself, my sister asked me "What does the Widows Ring look like?
I knew at that moment that there is no 1 ring for everyone, but there needed to be choices, as each person has their own journey of grief to walk and that journey is different for each of us.
The rings speak to us differently so what I would do is not what you should do-follow your heart.
The rings are so inexpensive, because I want them where they will be loved.
But there is absolutely no reason not to have more than one- which is what I did and continue to do-.
Today(5years a widow) I am wearing the sterling silver Broken Heart where my engagement ring once was, and next to it sits the all black 3-4mm eternity ring.
On my right hand, in memory of mom and dad is the red Broken Heart with the black band.
Last week I wore the ALWAYS IN MY HEART & SOUL RING on my thumb, with the HEART of Steel on my ring finger.
And no, I am not a gypsy .. but I wear each one, and each has a different feel.
You will know you made the right choice -when you put on your ring the 1st time - you look at it and sigh.
In a few moments you will begin to breathe .. which you have not done in awhile. And it just feels right.
The plating is the thickest available. Most jewelry only has 7-9mmg, while mine is over 30mmg. It does wear off but not for awhile, and with proper care the plating could last for about a year. They can be replated and there is a solution available to do it at home.
Diane
Dear widowsring,
Thank you so much as I cannot take off my rings if I wanted to (I am still swollen with fluid from having my son who is almost two I have lost seventy pounds of water but still holding had to take it off for a while but the first time I got it back on could not get it back off) I like the eternity band but think it may not fit on my low setting I am going to give this ring to my older son to put in a safety deposit box for when he gets married when I can take it off. I thought I could wear this one on my left hand ring finger I will get the other once I can take off my diamond. I think this will be the one for me. Oh, do you have a regular site?
Thank you,
jackandtommysmom, kate, a friend in grief.
I never thought you where a gypsy must have been someone else
two questions
first is this for a widow or the band style
second how long usually does the gold last and do you redip with gold plate? well that is three questions I don't know if I should get this one I would have to wear on my right hand the band I could wear over my wedding ring what did you do?
- jackandtommysmom
Dear jackandtommysmom
For a widow that wants to continue to wear her wedding rings, the thin eternity bands fit nicely next to those rings.
The journey ring also fits well.
The wider bands are best worn alone to replace the wedding rings when it feels right to remove them, or you do not want an empty finger or to appear as if your are single.
The solitaire is designed to wear alone, but many wear them with their other rings.
I have worn every ring that I offer and each has something to say.
When I 1st started looking for a widows ring for myself, my sister asked me "What does the Widows Ring look like?
I knew at that moment that there is no 1 ring for everyone, but there needed to be choices, as each person has their own journey of grief to walk and that journey is different for each of us.
The rings speak to us differently so what I would do is not what you should do-follow your heart.
The rings are so inexpensive, because I want them where they will be loved.
But there is absolutely no reason not to have more than one- which is what I did and continue to do-.
Today(5years a widow) I am wearing the sterling silver Broken Heart where my engagement ring once was, and next to it sits the all black 3-4mm eternity ring.
On my right hand, in memory of mom and dad is the red Broken Heart with the black band.
Last week I wore the ALWAYS IN MY HEART & SOUL RING on my thumb, with the HEART of Steel on my ring finger.
And no, I am not a gypsy .. but I wear each one, and each has a different feel.
You will know you made the right choice -when you put on your ring the 1st time - you look at it and sigh.
In a few moments you will begin to breathe .. which you have not done in awhile. And it just feels right.
The plating is the thickest available. Most jewelry only has 7-9mmg, while mine is over 30mmg. It does wear off but not for awhile, and with proper care the plating could last for about a year. They can be replated and there is a solution available to do it at home.
Diane
Dear widowsring,
Thank you so much as I cannot take off my rings if I wanted to (I am still swollen with fluid from having my son who is almost two I have lost seventy pounds of water but still holding had to take it off for a while but the first time I got it back on could not get it back off) I like the eternity band but think it may not fit on my low setting I am going to give this ring to my older son to put in a safety deposit box for when he gets married when I can take it off. I thought I could wear this one on my left hand ring finger I will get the other once I can take off my diamond. I think this will be the one for me. Oh, do you have a regular site?
Thank you,
jackandtommysmom, kate, a friend in grief.
I never thought you where a gypsy must have been someone else
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